Answer: no. He asked me to take down the Male Nurse photo. I figured I could leave it up if I made it more fair.
He got home this morning (Tuesday) at about 7:45 and went straight to bed. He slept until 3pm, when he ate, made a few phone calls about his student loans, and left for work. I stopped by just now to bring him 'lunch' and he asked if he could come home with me. He has about 6 hours left, but he said they haven't gotten a chance to sit down yet! It's a busy night. They had one ER patient when I was there, and with the snow coming down in blankets, they may have a few more before the night is over.
He was upbeat about it, though. I could see he was tired, but I also know that the excitement keeps him going. I would feel more sympathy if things were boring and he wanted to leave. Last night we talked a bit about a patient he has who may die soon. That will be something new for him. He seemed a little cautious about spending time with her, but it's his favorite part of the job. I know he sits with patients, talks to them whenever he can, and really takes time to make sure all their needs are being met. Beyond just temperature and physical comfort- he holds their hands. Kayle says he has a way with the older women. I don't doubt that. I think he has a way with everyone he meets.
Even though I miss him tonight, I know he's with people who need him. As important as he is to folks, I don't mind sharing at all.
Trivia: What is the ratio of cows to humans (or humans to cows) in the state of Montana?
I'm going to guess and say 5 to 1...5 cows to every person. I know you told me once, but I can't remember. This entry made me cry. I hope Stephan gets a chance to read it.
ReplyDeleteThe answer is actually 3:1. There are three cows for every one human living in Montana. Good job, Melanie! And thanks for posting the comment- Stephan read this blog entry, and your post, and was very touched.
ReplyDeleteOh come on Stephan! No Gaylord Focker the male nurse jokes?
ReplyDeleteI have nipples Focker, can you milk me???